High Holy Days

5785

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  • Ticket Registration

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  • Schedule

    Find the full schedule of services at Temple Emanu-El.

  • Live Streaming

    Temple Emanu-El is proud of offer livestreamed services to everyone regardless of membership.

  • Tiny Tot Services

    (for those not-yet a member)

    Open to the community – membership is not required

  • Book of Remembrance

    Remember your loved ones in the Book of Remembrance.

  • Guest Tickets

    Members may purchase tickets for guests by logging into your ShulCloud portal.

  • Rosh Hashanah 2nd Day Picnic

    Join us after Tashlich for the Second Day PIcic. Lunch is available to purchase or bring your own!

  • Marking October 7th

    As we approach 5785, we know the atrocities of 10/7 will impact our prayers and experiences during these Days of Awe. Throughout the High Holy Days, we will be marking the first anniversary of 10/7 through words and songs and also creating new gatherings.

  • Kulanu Kol Nidre Service (new this year)

    This is a a 30–40-minute intergenerational service that touches upon the power of Kol Nidre. We’ll hear the cello, the ancient words of Kol Nidre, and turn to our liturgy as we mark the holiest day of the Jewish calendar. This service is geared towards families with elementary aged children. Kol Nidre will begin at 7:45 PM.

High Holy Day Services & Programs

  • SANCTUARY SERVICES

    The core of Temple Emanu-El’s worship experience.

  • KULANU/INTERGENERATIONAL SERVICE

    This unique worship experience is designed as a prayer option for those families with students in grades 1-5.

  • TINY TOT

    This service is a celebratory experience intended to bring the themes and meaning of the High Holy Days to young ones and their families. This service is open to the community - membership is not required.

  • TASLICH + PICNIC

    After the Second Day Rosh Hashanah Service, we will come together as one community for Tashlich followed by a Picnic in Mindowaskin Park.

  • REVERSE TASLICH

    Mindful of our role in caring for the environment, join Temple Emanu-El members as we help clean up Tamaques Park.

  • Kulanu Kol Nidre Service

    New this High Holy Days a 30–40-minute intergenerational service that touches upon the power of Kol Nidre. We’ll hear the cello, the ancient words of Kol Nidre, and turn to our liturgy as we mark the holiest day of the Jewish calendar. This service is geared towards families with elementary aged children.

  • YOM KIPPUR DISCUSSION GROUPS

    Enrich your Yom Kippur experience during a discussion group covering a wide range of topics including Israel, Jewish texts, and contemporary issues.

  • HEALING SERVICE

    On Yom Kippur, our clergy grounded in our Jewish tradition will lead a meditative service that focuses on the healing of mind, body, and spirit.

  • YIZKOR AND NEILAH

    Yizkor is a reflective memorial service to remember and honor our loved ones who have died and Neilah concludes Yom Kippur.

  • FOOD DRIVE

    During Rosh Hashanah, please take a bag to bring back on Yom Kippur filled with non-perishable food to support the Westfield Food Pantry.

Marking October 7th Throughout the High Holy Days

As we approach 5785, we know the atrocities of 10/7 will impact our prayers and experiences during these Days of Awe. Throughout the High Holy Days, we will be marking the first anniversary of 10/7 through words and songs and also creating new gatherings.

 

October 7th

Throughout the Day - At the Synagogue there will be spaces to reflect on the atrocities of the 10/7/23. Including a dedication of a memorial and vigil on our front lawn.

 

5 pm – Cemetery Service and Unveiling of 10/7 Memorial at Beth Israel Cemetery in Woodbridge

Between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, it is customary to visit loved one’s graves and say prayers of remembrance. We will gather at our Temple section in Beth Israel Cemetery and lead a brief service as well as unveil a monument in our section in memory of those who died on 10/7.

 

7:30 pm – Community Wide Commemoration of October 7th organized by Jewish Federation of Greater MetroWest

 

October 12th

Yom Kippur Afternoon Services

During the Martyrology section of our afternoon services, we will be dedicating this time period in memory of those murdered on October 7th. We will be sharing stories, song, and creating space for remembrance. The martyrology section will lead into an opportunity for personal Yizkor/remembrance. 

 

October 24th

10 am - Simchat Torah Services with Yizkor and Reading of Names

We will mark the Hebrew date with special Yizkor prayers at the end of our service. We will also be reading names of all those who died on October 7th on our front lawn. Information about how you can participate in the reading will be shared in advance.

High Holy Day Services FAQ’s

  • We welcome in the High Holy Days with our Erev Rosh Hashanah service. It’s the perfect way to usher these holidays in with our entire congregation. This service is for families, adults and children that lasts about 75 minutes.

  • These services are the core of Temple Emanu-El’s worship experience. They aim to inspire and engage worshippers through the fullness of the High Holy Day liturgy, Torah and other scriptural readings, and sermons. Worship is oriented toward adults, but those of all ages are very welcome.

  • Kulanu meaning “all of us” is a unique worship experience that is open to attendees of all ages, though it is designed as a prayer option for those families with students in grades 1 – 5.  This interactive and intergenerational service includes a family-oriented prayer book, guitar accompaniment, as well as stories and meaningful discussion. At Kulanu, we intend kids and adults to share a time of connection, celebration, and awe.

  • Tiny Tot Services are geared toward pre-readers. It is a lively, celebratory experience intended to bring the themes and meaning of the High Holy Days to young ones and their families. Services will be led by our clergy and a song leader and are about 30 minutes in length. 

    Members – please register here. 
    Not a member yet? Register here. 

  • Following services on the second day of Rosh Hashanah join us as we symbolically cast away our sins to start the year fresh. This ritual is fun and meaningful for all ages, all you need are a few pieces of bread. We will gather in Mindowaskin Park for a short service and the ritual of Tashlich. Perfect for all ages.

  • After Tashlich, join us for a picnic in Mindowaskin Park.

    Bring your own picnic or purchase a boxed lunch that you can pick up at the park! Each box is $12 and comes with chips, fruit, and water. Lunch options include the following:

    • Mozzarella, Tomato and Basil wrap with balsamic dressing

    • Tuna Wrap

    • Bagel and Creamc heese

    • Grilled Chicken Tossed Salad with balsamic dressing on the side

    Don’t forget to pack a blanket/chair to sit on!

  • Selichot is a beautiful and meaningful service meant to help us prepare for the upcoming Days of Awe. It takes place on the Saturday evening prior to Rosh Hashanah. The evening includes Havdalah, the prayers separating Shabbat from the rest of the week.

  • We continue our Yom Kippur Service with our unique liturgy and Torah reading for this holy day. 

    Yizkor – This is a reflective memorial service to remember and honor our loved ones who have died.

    Neilah – Join our community outside for the concluding service on Yom Kippur. We will end services with the sound of the shofar (bring your own to help with a final blast) and also havdalah – everyone will have the opportunity to hold a candle as we end the holiest day of the year.

  • New this High Holy Days a 30–40-minute intergenerational service that touches upon the power of Kol Nidre. We’ll hear the cello, the ancient words of Kol Nidre, and turn to our liturgy as we mark the holiest day of the Jewish calendar. This service is geared towards families with elementary aged children.

  • This year we will be offering many different learning sessions for those looking to enrich their Yom Kippur experience. These sessions are facilitated by members of our congregation and cover a wide range of topics including Israel, Jewish texts, and contemporary issues. The learning sessions will highlight aspects of the Yom Kippur Afternoon service including reading of Torah and the Book of Jonah as well as an in-depth look at different sections of the service.

  • On Yom Kippur, our clergy grounded in our Jewish tradition will lead a meditative service that focuses on the healing of mind, body, and spirit. We will use song, prayers, and meditations to provide comfort to those who need healing and those who take care of the sick.

  • As we approach the High Holy Days, our thoughts often turn to those who will not be by our side. Their absence is felt at the dinner table or at synagogue. Visiting the graves of our loved ones at this time of year helps us feel connected to them through the power of memory. Join Temple Emanu-El clergy at Beth Israel Cemetery in Woodbridge (1098 Woodbridge Center Drive, Woodbridge) for the Cemetery Memorial Service. Click here for directions

  • The evening service of Yom Kippur is known as Kol Nidre. The service takes its name from the prayer recited at the beginning of the service. Kol Nidre (“All Vows”) is actually a legal formula, developed during the medieval ages, which absolved one from vows made under duress.

    Kol Nidre is recited three times, often while the Ark is open, and the Torah scrolls are held by those representing the leadership of the community. The haunting melody to which Kol Nidre is sung provides a solemn and moving backdrop to this holiest of days.

    Kol Nidre is also the only night of the Jewish calendar when a tallit (prayer shawl) is worn. In fact, it is traditional to wear a tallit for all of the Yom Kippur services.

  • Shabbat Shuvah is the Shabbat between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Known as the Sabbath of Return, this service helps us to set our intentions as we enter the most sacred moments of the Jewish calendar.

  • The commandment ba’al tashchit, instructs us not to destroy. Mindful of our role in caring for the environment, join Temple Emanu-El members as we help clean up a local park area. More information coming soon.